Living this illness of depression and anxiety IS NOT EASY, LET
ME TELL YOU THAT FOR STARTERS….
I put on the mask of a brave face, tell those close to me I’m
coping when I inside a voice screams back ‘no your not, stop lying’.
I do it because I don’t want to feel defeated, again, like I
did before when I had the nervous/emotional breakdown. I do it because in a way
it does help me stay strong, but in another way – a NOT GOOD way, it’s hiding
from the truth, letting it simmer to boil and eventually I know I will explode.
Not many can see through the mask I wear, at times my partner
Mr M can, other times I’m hiding it so well even he can’t tell…
Recently I wrote a blog about not having negativity in my
life, ( No one needs negativity ) and though I do find it easy to not be negative, also turn a negative
into a positive, I’m still prepared to admit sometimes those down and desperate
feelings leave me powerless to control. I sit wondering why I feel the way I do
not finding answers and therefore letting myself be carried away with how I
feel.
There is only one thing that will pull me out of it all in an
instant and that’s my daughter MissK, all she has to do is smile, giggle
innocently or even be able to tell I’m not myself, give me a hug and a kiss and
let me feel her love.
What pulls you out of those feelings you don’t want to be
having, but are indeed having???
Being pregnant (13weeks as I type this) doesn’t make it ALL
any easier, hormones are raging and I have fund moods harder to get a grasp on.
I was on medication and made the decision about 8 months ago now, that I didn’t
want to be anymore, I finally felt like I could do/face it all without it. I do
not regret my decision at all but at times I do have to be honest enough with
myself to admit it certainly was easier, BUT I mist also try more to tell
myself I can do it without medication and trust in that!
Whilst writing this blog I have been listening to piano and
violin music, oh how it takes me away from all that I’m feeling, uplifts me and
brings me back to planet earth feeling at peace J
I say to myself right now and to all those reading, Tomorrow
is another day, a new day with new adventures EMBRACE and SMILE, and I will do
my to as-well.
~An inspiring bloggers BLOG I read today ~ My Mummy Daze
and
a most entertaining and honest blogger who loves wine as much as me and is drinking for me as well right now because I can't and well of course because I care to much to get this baby drunk LOL ~ Parental Parody